I have two thoughts on this:

1. Stuff is easier to learn when you are with a group of people whose behavior you want to imbibe is normal. I don't know if I phrased it well. My point is that you are more inclined to learn better if you join a cohort or group of people who are going through the same things. I know a lot of these places in Lagos I can link you up with.

2. Coding is not the only skill in the tech space. There are several from product management to content development. You might want to check out a comprehensive list online and see if any pique your fancy.

3. I know I said two but another option is to go via the route of online sites like upwork to pick up writing gigs. You are an excellent writer and you can use it as a springboard to greater things.

Cheers and know that I am rooting for you, Adedamola